Why do we go on having feeling for others apart from our partner or spouse?

Naturally, humans develop feeling because they love each other’s company

True love is about commitment, being there through sickness and in health, and creating a meaningful friendship underneath the romantic elements. Some people fall in love because their partner is someone they can laugh with and cry with

So, having a crush on someone else when you’re married doesn’t mean that you’re a bad person

It also is not a reflection of your marriage. Believe it or not, having a crush may not mean anything at all

In fact, people in happy, healthy, committed relationships can still develop fluttery feelings for attractive others

So, as long as you connect with someone emotionally, someone that makes you feel safe, happy, loved… someone you can talk to, rely upon etc

You start developing feelings… learning to control and set boundaries is what keeps you with your chosen life partner