I’d think less of them as shallow individuals if they hadn’t answered to my message if it had come from someone I didn’t know or had barely interacted with. It implies that they merely wanted to add you in order to increase their friend count and perhaps gain an additional like on each profile photo. They would be in grave danger of losing friends. Who they are would not matter to me. Instead of hanging out with people who merely wanted to add you for popularity but would never care enough about you to reply to your message, I would rather handle things on my own or rely on people who will be there for me.
If I had enough significant encounters with that person, it would be difficult to unfriend them unless they did anything to demonstrate that they are an extremely cruel person. In this instance, I would refrain from emailing them and from like or commenting on their Facebook or Instagram postings. I’d cease supporting everything and anything related to them. If they are not going to give me the time of day to respond or provide a thoughtful response, I would not want to offer any help to that individual. So, once again, no more social media likes or comments. There will be no further communications, no matter what.
In essence, you should treat this type of individual as nothing more than a nobody. Don’t worry about them or consider them frequently. After that, stop giving them anything. no likes No comments. There are none. No consideration or concern for them.
I have one acquaintance, for instance, who is fond of me because of my job goals. However, it soon became apparent to me that he had no real interest in our friendship and rather wanted to profit off my prospective success. When I arranged hangouts, he always acted as like it was a hassle. He also does not maintain contact as frequently as he had promised. I thus chose to unfollow so that I wouldn’t have to offer him what he doesn’t already have.
We need to quit beating about the bush with sugar-coated explanations to explain why they don’t want to respond to you. They are not too busy to answer, in fact. They have seen the message and are aware that it is present. So, why haven’t they responded? It’s because they don’t believe you’re cool, worthy, or significant enough to warrant their attention.
That is correct. And if you’re a very cool and kind person in general, they must have used a faulty logic to believe differently. This makes them shallow, and as a result, you should avoid such people. If you are so unimportant or a loser in their view, then maybe you are not good enough to be on their friend list or “following” list. You should just unfriend or unfollow them, lol.